Did you know that I started playing Dungeons & Dragons? I mentioned it casually a few times and shared a few photos on Instagram but I haven’t talked much about why I decided to start playing, what I’ve learned from playing, and how it’s helping me not be such a workaholic.
The newest edition of Dungeons & Dragons (some call it Next or 5e) was released last year and my coworkers and I were joking about starting a campaign only to find out that one of them has been playing for…well, nearly two decades! So we started following the launch of the new edition, ordered our player handbooks, playing mats, miniatures, and plenty of dice to hold us over.
One thing I love about videogames like Sims and Skyrim is the character creation aspect…deciding how your character looks, her motivations, his background, what really makes that character tick…and Dungeons & Dragons really feeds that love.
For our first campaign, I created a Tiefling rouge named Enox Eremara (think of a young female version of Hellboy) who is on the run from her Thieves’ Guild after witnessing her brother (the leader of the guild at the time) slain by his second in command. She’s motivated by gold and safety so a life of adventuring suits her and she’s not afraid to take matters into her own hands when it comes to interrogations. I helped Alex create his Forest Gnome Druid (named Adokis Silental) but ended up playing the character (in addition to Enox) when schedules kept us from meeting regularly and the group deciding to move our gaming to our lunch hour at work. I am working on two new characters: Half-Elf Warlock named Raven Oakvale and Wood Elf Monk named Selene Mahina for another campaign we’re starting. I also have a Human Bard for a campaign that I’m currently running…yes, I got so into D&D that I am now a Dungeon Master…which sounds a lot sexier than it actually is.
If you’re interested in trying Dungeons & Dragons for the first time, here are some tips I have to share:
- Have fun creating a character! You’ll be role playing as a character within the adventure and you don’t want to be stuck with a character that doesn’t interest you at all. You can create a female wizard with bushy brown hair and a habit of spewing out facts if you think playing Hermione would be easy for you. You can create a female ranger who favors a bow and arrow and has a big heart for the underdog if you think playing Katniss would be fun. Let your creativity flow!
- Take a few minutes to read your Player Handbook. It sound boring, but the player handbook really helps break down how the game will start and how players take turns advancing the story. You’ll also learn that there are more things you can do when you meet a bad guy than pulling your weapon and attacking.
- Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Talk to your Dungeon Master/Game Master before the campaign begins to flesh out your character and to ask any questions you may have about his or her expectations during gameplay. I usually forget what bonus actions I’m allowed and how much damage my character can inflict on a bad guy if she hits him with a crowbar.
- Use this as an excuse to watch the Lord of the Rings Triology, play Skyrim, or binge watch Game of Thrones…and those two episodes of Community where they play D&D. Honestly, it was the Community episodes (here and here) that got me really excited to start playing because it helps make the whole process much more relatable and doesn’t get hung up on miniatures and checking facts. And really, any excuse to do any of these things is a good excuse! You may even find inspiration for your character!
- Embrace the storytelling! D&D a game of storytelling, which makes this a great game for creatives (like you!) to try at least once. It’s not just about fighting and killing, you may find yourself solving mysterious in a small hamlet or helping to reunite a small child with his extended family. It’s like a Choose Your Own Adventure game where the players drive what goes on and the Dungeon Master/Game Master can try to force the players to adhere to a pre-written adventure or roll with the punches and see where the adventure goes as the players role play.
I’m really looking forward to attending conventions this year so I can keep an eye out for some miniatures, special dice, or even a funny mug that is D&D related. I already bought myself a shirt.
If you play and have suggestions/tips for me, please share!
March 2, 2015
From a Beginner,
30 Days of Lists begins on Sunday! I’m hunkering down and getting some work done for the awesome group of Listers we have participating this round. If you’re interested in joining this creative journaling challenge, you can find out more (and register!) here.
This week’s Essential Reading:
February 27, 2015
I took a photo of this quote printed inside my copy of #GIRLBOSS a few months ago. I’m the type of person has a hard time just sitting and watching TV and I’m not very good at just resting when I’m sick. I have a cold that kicked my butt last week and I’m still trying to get over it. I’m trying to take better care of myself and enjoy some down time before 30 Days of Lists officially starts this weekend. I’m reading through the virtual pile of newsletters that are filling my inbox from awesome bloggers and entrepreneurs. I’m reading up on how to be a better Dungeon Master. I’m purging a few belongings. I’m making notes of updates I want to make to the Spark ecourse.
I’m obviously terrible at just resting.
Instead of stressing about resting, I’m re-thinking my hustle like approach to my to do list.
For those of you caught between waiting and hustling: put your mile-long to do list aside for the day and think about the three things that you would like to complete by the time you go to bed. Only three things. If you’re able to tackle additional tasks that come your way, that’s fine, but I want you to focus on those three things.
My three things for today:
- Clear out the unread newsletters from my inbox. There are 111 unread emails in my ‘newsletters’ folder in my inbox and today I’d like to tackle this number. I’m going to plow through these emails pretty quickly because I can easily delete the ones with time-sensitive sounding subject lines or subject lines that just don’t interest me and read the others that look good to me. This really shouldn’t take me more than an hour.
- Clean out my car. There are jackets, shoes, empty water bottles, and goodness knows what else floating around my car and it’s high time I clean it out. I try to do this once a week and today is as good of a day as any. I hope this doesn’t take more than 15 minutes.
- Prepare for tomorrow. I have work tomorrow so I would like to spend a few minutes before bed tonight making sure I have something picked out to wear, my bag is in order, I know where my ID badge is, and maybe make a snack for myself. It’s so nice to leave the house on time without feeling rushed or stressed when I take the time to prepare the night before. This should take about 30 minutes.
My three things for today are super boring and I’m okay with that. I need an uneventful evening where I can stream old episodes of Grimm in the background while I make heads-or-tails of a pile of papers sitting on my tiny desk. I need boring and I need easy.
How do you approach your to do list? What are your three things for today?
February 26, 2015
Welcome to the 30 Days of Lists blog hop!
We couldn’t hold onto our listing excitement until March 1st so the #30Lists team, Ambassadors, Sponsors are holding a blog hop to show off some lists as well as introduce you all to the challenge. If you haven’t participated in 30 Days of Lists in the past, you’re in for a treat…this is the first time Amy and I are hosting a #30Lists challenge during March!
I selected “What I love about ___” from the March 2011 challenge for today’s blog hop. I decided to write about Southern California “winters”
My list reads:
- Layering = a jean jacket over my tank top
- Ice cream dates are a year-round thing
- I’m not sure if I own an umbrella
- I have an excuse to no[t] pack away my shorts!
Yep, typo and all :)
It’s not too late to register for the March 2015 edition of 30 Days of Lists – simply click here and you’re a few clicks away from accessing the private site and getting into the private Facebook group!
So what’s this about a blog hop? What does that mean? There are a few other people sharing lists of their own today. Amy and I asked the #30Lists ambassadors, sponsors, and participants to select a list from March 2011’s free edition of 30 Days of Lists for the blog hop today. You’ll find find links to those posts on our 30 Days of Lists Facebook page…you may just find your new favorite blog to read or get inspired to share a list of your own.
Check out other lists from some of my favorite Listers:
February 24, 2015
30 Days of Lists
Alex and I spent a long weekend in Portland, Oregon a couple of weeks ago to visit some friends. Our previous trips (2013 and 2014) included beautiful weather so we were treated to some rainy weather to give us more of a Portland experience this time around.
The biggest reason for this trip? There was a killer deal for flights on Cyber Monday and we couldn’t resist the opportunity to spend a few days away. That’s kind of how we plan most of our trips…we look online to see what deals are available, we select a city, and go.
What we ate: Voodoo Doughnut to help me sober up after Spanish coffee and Manhattans from Huber’s Cafe. Biscuits and mushroom gravy, cornmeal pancakes, and an amazing fried chicken breakfast biscuit from Pine State Biscuits. Mexican hot chocolate doughnut from Blue Star Donuts. We had a quiet lunch at Laurelhurst Cafe (dog-friendly outdoor seating!) where we shared a big salad and the Wallace panini. We ate at the food carts, at KEEN Footwear’s Headquarters (they have an on-site cafe), and Shandong.
Something new to us: KEEN Footwear’s headquarters and store is just up the street from one of our favorite breakfast places and a few blocks from REI so I’m really surprised we didn’t stop in on our previous trips. Being from Southern California, I didn’t have proper shoes to deal with the rain so I picked up these boots in grey/black (I donated the heavy leather hiking boots I was wearing to a shelter). Alex and I got a short tour of the headquarters and learned more about the efforts KEEN took to have a low impact on the environment when they moved into the building a few years ago. They challenged themselves to only use one big dumpster during the remodel so they got to be extra creative with how they reused the materials found in the building. Left: Of course I had to take a #shoeselfie with the PDX carpet that is being removed and replaced.
The great outdoors: We borrowed a car to cruise through the wilder parts of Oregon outside of the city and ended up seeing several very tall waterfalls including the famous Multnomah Falls. It was a drizzly day so the drive was beautiful and peaceful. It was nice to stop and see the sights we only got to peek at on our way to and from the wedding last summer. It was also a nice change of weather for us since Southern California has been having a very summer-like winter this year.
Even though the trip was short, the slow pace we decided to take was nice. We’ve done a few touristy things in the past so we didn’t need to worry about being anywhere at a specific time and we were able to see more of what life is like in Portland…who knows, maybe we’ll end up there someday.
February 23, 2015
Short and sweet this week.
This week’s Essential Reading:
February 20, 2015
I listen to a ton of podcasts. I listen to them while in the shower, on the treadmill, commuting, straightening my hair at work*, working on emails to my newsletter subscribers, and finalizing client work. It’s to the point where the voices are comforting and it makes me feel like I am just listening in on some friends having a chat. That may sound weird, but if you’ve listened to podcasts in the past (beyond Serial), you know that feeling of hearing the introduction music to your favorite subscriptions…it’s a feeling of ease or maybe even that, energizing “let’s get shit done!” feeling.
So now that you’ve made it through Serial, maybe you are interested in trying out more podcasts to fill that void? I’m always willing to try out a new-to-me podcast and am usually a little too quick to suggest a subscription to friends. I’m not going to go into too much detail about the podcasts listed below…the titles explain themselves and I don’t want you to think I’m trying to “sell” them. Just poke around a bit and enjoy!
Podcasts for Creatives and Small Business Owners
- 1 Day Business Breakthrough is with Chris Ducker and Pat Flynn (you’ll see that Pat has two other podcasts listed below) where they hear from a listener with a question (generally about how to make a specific business bigger/more profitable/better) and they both brainstorm ideas for the listener. I’m not always a fan of Chris Ducker but I’m always Team Pat so I listen from time to time
- Ask Pat is Pat Flynn’s second podcast…this time, it’s a daily podcast where he answers a listener question. I really enjoy the short episodes and Pat’s always a welcome voice/personality while I’m working
- Call to Action is from Unbounce, the experts in landing pages. I think it’s still a new podcast and I’m really enjoying the specific focus on copywriting and sales pages
- Elise Gets Crafty is by Elise Blaha and it’s for creative folks who run their own businesses. I like the guests Elise brings on
- Being Boss is still pretty new but I’m loving it. It’s a little like the book #Girlboss but as a weekly podcast
- Entrepreneur on Fire is a favorite of mine because the format is predictable and it’s different because the podcast is daily…yes, daily. John Lee Dumas was one of the first people to try the daily format and it’s become a fairly popular schedule
- The Suitcase Entrepreneur used to be only weekly but it’s now twice a week! The focus here is creating a business that lets you travel the world
- Online Marketing Made Easy with Amy Porterfield – I’m working through this subscription from the beginning…Amy comes off as a little stiff/rehearsed but I think it’s because she wants to provide a quality product and she’s used to webinars and video where talking like a salesperson is expected. She has great info but I can only listen to an episode at a time because I’m more into a conversational tone
- The Smart Passive Income Podcast is Pat Flynn’s original podcast and it’s fantastic
- The Paperclipping Roundtable weekly podcast sharing news, information, tips, and more about scrapbooking and memory-keeping
- She Percolates weekly podcast about what success means to different people. It’s a newer podcast and worth a listen
What podcasts would you add to this list?
February 16, 2015